After losing my daughter, Trinity, I am writing to share how her short life has transformed mine. She was like a flash of lightening, a bright light gone in an instant, but the thunder that resulted is still reverberating today. It shook me to my core, but I’m still here, albeit rearranged.

(This "complete" blog is a 12 chapter mini-book, with a few stray posts at the "end". To read it like a book, please start with 02/12 at the top of the archive on the right.)

Wednesday, February 19, 2014


… is a phrase I could not shake last week. I was filled with it, up and over, brimming, beaming – on the anniversary of my daughter’s death. That is completely unreasonable, against all human wisdom, makes no sense. And yet, it is a beautifully curious phrase. I am drawn to it, to puzzle and ponder.

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  1. Stacy, thank you so much for your openness and vulnerability. Reading this blog was really a blessing to me. Kathy Mc

    1. Thank you so much for taking time to read the whole thing, Kathy! I hope you enjoy Everyday Eden. Stacy